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Hello I am new and dont belong here

dayz Short Posted by in Announcements - June 26, 2020, 5:22 pm

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We all do it, we have all mostly been here forever, to the point where in LGH conversation we can sorta pick up where last convo ended or know enough about each other mto tease about things. its the glue that binds a community.. you wunna go where everybody knows yer name.

Now, imagine being the new person looking in. How intimadating that must feel.. to see an active chat full of all the laughter and teaing and feel like you dont belong. Esp with how quickly chat can move in LGH..youre new...you post a timid little hello.. before you know it 10 people have posted after yu and the hello gets lost. or a question...

sometimes since we knoiw the answers an have known them forever, the answer can start to feel like gee how can you NOT know the answer.. so we act like oh wow.. eh..they'll figure it out or someone else will respond.. before you know it...10 people post and question is lost with that timid hello

Now, the LGH community is by far the best most helpful damned community in all of SL. i know that.. i see it every day \☺/ but lets not forget to welcome the new people into our midst with enthusiasm and open arms =)

just sayin

after writing this i looked into lgh and see kev and Iona helping not only a new resident but one using a difrent language... erases everything up above and writes.. just keep on being you =D


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Lyric Tapia
June 26, 2020, 5:53 pm -

Sometimes I feel like I dont belong in chat even though I have been in the group and fishing for years and years, I ask a simple question and get a snarky reply instead of a simple answer. So I dont even bother these days. I hate to sound like a whiner, but if you want to correct someone by pointing out it is already in the notices that one may have not seen, do it it politely or in IM instead of pointing and laughing at the one that is asking,


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KevDee Resident
June 27, 2020, 3:06 am -

http://tiny.cc/agoodread


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whyssi Resident
July 3, 2020, 11:00 am -

I understand Lyric Tapia very well, In my timezone usually Cassie is the one answering my questions and very nice and sweet and with patience... thank you for that Cassie...
But I ask my questions in im to her....
And honestly I tried for a long time to join in at chats...at a rare occasion I get an nice reply to a joke ...mostly I get no reply at all.
And not cause the chat was so crowded it got lost....
So...yes still like everyone...not angry or disappointed... just saying that there are more people feeling like "not able to blend in" 
Still love fishing and will keep going...


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